Day To Be Crossed

Yesterday, I receive an email from a friend, he said something that really made me thought. He sent this email to some people that he thought can be a "motivator" to the other.

He wrote about life, how we life in this world, and how we really need people around us.

I realize that most of life, I think more about myself, how will I life today and tomorrow, but sometimes we forget about the people around us…

This life is not only about "ME", not about how I life today, not about how to get the highest score, not about how much money I have, not about how success I am, not about how many friends I have, not about how smart I am… but it is about how I care about the people around us.

This life is about the people around us, how we make the people around us feel to be cared. Sometimes, we only think about ourself, about our work..

I think that how many times of my life I care about the people around? What did I do when my friend needs me?

I’m not sensitive about what the people around me feels, when they sad or they get troubles, mostly I never realize that.

Maybe they find me only thinking of myself, don’t have enough time to share their feeling with me. Maybe I don’t know that actually that time I already hurt their heart.

From the smallest thing such as smile, can makes people feel so comfortable. Maybe they will happy if see us smile, say hello, ask how they feel today, or just reply their emails, spend times more with them. Just this small thing can make other people feel that somebody really care about them

So, should I wait for another people cares about me or should I start it from today?

"smile an ever lasting smile
a smile can bring you near to me"

Regards,

A Girl @ home

Hoooray! The long holiday is coming…. Fun is in front of my eyes.
Really like to have such a long holiday, I can count it as 5 days holiday =)

As our plan before, me-janty-wena-ping2-rosnica-zhuyi-kaijun-haris-song-sun-xia-wang-alex went to Puncak…

First, we went to Taman Safari to visit "si bodoh" family, then we played so many games, such a fun day. We continued to go to my aunty villa at Golden Hill, first cleaned the house because no body stayed there for such a long time, really dirty… After that we prepared BBQ and had a nice dinner.. Played cards (truth or dare as punishment is not a good choice), who is the killer, and 007 Bond. For the last game, we should drink a half glass of water if we lost, haris and wena lost so many times, hahaha…. Really a good game to focus and concentrate of something. I heard also a surprising news from my friend, so sad to hear that, but I hope this holiday will be an unforgetable memory. That day, I slept at 2.30 AM but it’s not a good sleep, I awaken around 5 AM and couldn’t sleep again, it is too cold and I didn’t have any blanket. Finally I moved to wena and janty’s bed and share the blanket with them, hahaha…

The next day I wake up around 9 AM, have a little breakfast and clean up the house. Then, we had lunch together at restaurant, the service so bad.. After lunch, we separated into 2 cars, me-janty-kaijun-xia-song-sun continued to Bandung, but the other went back to Jakarta. After arrive at andung, we checked in at hotel, but the room is not as big as I imagine, so we need to arrange the bed and add some extra bed. Finally, si bodoh-xia-song slept at the master bed, sun slept at the extra bed, me and janty slept at the sofa (actually the sofa can be opened and worked as a bed also), but sofa still sofa, it is a little hard and not as comfortable as bed. Anyway, I still could sleep well. We had dinner at "the valley" cafe, really a good place. I always like to go there, such a romantic place, the food also delicious.

Day in Bandung is a shopping day, went to FO and bought some clothes. Me and janty really addicted to shop, but I thought the boys didn’t like it except si bodoh. He still help us to choose the clothes and give opinion, really a good "girl friend", hahaha… Next time I will ask him again to accompany us shopping =)

We bought the same short pants, a shirt, and chose a good cloth for si bodoh as a gift for his birthday. Song and xia also buy a shirt, really nice… We planned to go to hot spring, but the traffic is so bad, finally we choose to go back to Jakarta directly, so sorry to dissapoint you guys…

Sunday, I had a date with Janty, I promised her to accompany to buy converter, first we went to "mangga 2" to repair my sister’s laptop, but there wasn’t any shop could do it. Then we went to "glodok" to find the converter, so pity that the shop which sold it was closed. So, we just buy some DVD. We went to sarinah to buy a little gift for a friend, hoped he like it =)

At night, after came back from church, me-janty-kaijun-xia-song-sun-tony-aimin went dinner together at chinese restaurant near china town. We continued to go for karaoke at semanggi. realy nice place and nice song, I really enjoy to be there, sing some good song, should admit that aimin voice is beautiful, hahaha….
Finally, we went back home around 12 AM, so tired…. the next day should have a rest and sleep all day, a little piggy, but I think I deserve that =)

Regards,
Fun Girl @ home

Hiks…. I lost my heart!

I realize that I could not find it since I came back from Thailand, but I’m too busy to look for. Just this few days I try to ask people at my house whether they saw it. Only my maid said that she ever kept it but forget where she put.

Actually this is not my real "heart", but it is my lovely pillow with a heart shape. I own it since I was on junior high school, almost 10 years ago….

This pillow always accompany me when I was sleeping, just hug it makes me comfortable =)

I think every people have something special on her/his bed, some people have a doll or even a lovely pillow to accompany them. Lost it means missing something special right?

Hope can find it as soon as possible!

This few days has been a busy day for my sister, she should go to Depok for orientation of a new dentistry student at University of Indonesia. Congratulation for you sis, now you have been part of FKG UI!

She have to practice for a choir and also prepare for "Ospek", a kind of activities where senior student has their freedom to ask their junior to do anything as their wish! Actually I don’t like this kind of activities. The one that you should do if you were the senior student is to help the new student during their probation time, help them to study and feel comfortable to come to the new "environment". It’s not a time when you have freedom to ask your junior to do something stupid or impossible… This is Indonesia… with all the stupid activities… I hate it!

It makes me remember almost 5 years ago, when I was a new student at the university. I must attend this "Ospek" activities with all stupid assignment. I make all the assingment together with Lisa and Jipy, my friend from the same high school. They stay over night at my home. I already prepare a bed for them, but actually it is useless. We do all the assignment until 4 o’clock in the morning. It means we don’t have time for sleep! 4.30 we should go to the university to attend the "Ospek", so bad….

I feel so pity to my sister, all people at my home help her to prepare for the assignment. Last night, she ask my mom a lot of new word in dentistry for her assignment. I’m glad I not choose dentistry either medicine, I hate to memorize all latin word! That time, based on my IQ test result, they suggest me to join either medicine or something to do with medical things, finally I didn’t choose that major because I’m too lazy to memorize. If I take medicine as my major it means I should memorize so many thing include all latin words…

This week end, I have plan to accompany my friend to go out to Glodok, she want to find a converter. But, now she is trap on Makasar, feel so pity of you gal! She should work on this week end with all of the troubles… But this morning naughty boy send sms just to make me jealous, he told me that he went to the island near Makasar, a beautiful island for tourism… Bad boy, I also want to go there for fun not work! Hiks…. just wondering when I have chance to go there for fun.

Oh ya, this few days I also busy with a plan for the long week end next week. We have plan to go to Puncak and Bandung, must prepare all the things and organize the schedule very well… Can’t wait to go there =)

Regards,

Girl @ home   

Saturday, me and some friend have plan to play "gokart", but don’t know why wena canceled it. Then she sms us on friday afternoon to have dinner together at saturday night. She ask us to choose between "bale air" or "citos". After vote, finally we decide to go to citos.

Saturdaymorning, an sms wake me up. Oh… this sms is from "si bodoh". He asked me to accompany him to go to a glass shop to buy a glass for the table that has been broken a few days ago. Ok,then I go to his apartment first, pick him and his room mate up to the glass shop. Actually the glass shop is near my home, but if I let him go by taxi I’m sure that they willl get lost. I’m really a good friend right? Hahahaha…

After choose a glass, I ask the shop owner to send it to "si bodoh" apartment directly because we lazy to bring it, too big and also we don’t have any car. "Si bodoh" then say that he want to go to market, so I bring him to a traditional market near there. They buy some vegetables, beef, and chicken. I just help him to ask the price from the shop owner. It’s cheaper than at supermarket. I’m not really like to go to traditional market. It’s so crowded, and the place really not make me comfortable. Maybe not every year I go there, I forgot when was the last time I went there, hahaha… I should admit that this is the first time I go there in year 2006  =)

"SI bodoh" realize that not so many man go for shopping in the market, maybe only them is the man, hahaha…. Yes, in Indonesia usually a woman go to market. I always tease "si bodoh" as a type of house wife, hahaha…

In the afternoon me, ping2, kaijun, and zhuyi go to citos together from taman anggrek. We take a taxi. Such a long way! We met wena, ayu, and haris there. Then we have dinner at thailand restaurant. Really expensive but the food just ordinary. Finish dinner, we go to department store there. Ping2 want to find a slipper but can’t find one. We go around until the department store is closed. Ice cream as our dessert really the best choice.

After finish our dessert, wena, ayu, ping2, and zhuyi want to go to kemang. But me, "si bodoh", and haris want to go home because it is 10 PM already. Finally we lost on the vote. Ayu choose a cafe at kemang. I’m not really like the place because so many people smoking, makes me can’t brief easily! Just order a drinks and we enjoy the "life" music from the band there. I like the band, the singer is good, they also sing so many "great" song. Really enjoy the music. Then they have a break around 11.30 PM and start to play "disco" music. Really iritating my ear! Finally we decide to go home. It’s 12 AM already. We take taxi again, drop ping2, "si bodoh", and zhuyi at taman anggrek then go back to my home. I arrive around 1 AM. This is the second time I go back until morning (at home when there is my mom and dad). The first time when I was in university, I go back at 3 AM then the next day my mom very angry to me, hiks… Actually that day my mom go to surabaya for my cousin’s wedding. But I’m sure when she go back tomorrow, she will be very angry!

Just pray that she will not scold me….

Regards,

"dugem" Girl @ home    

What a bad week….

I got a very bad flu!

I think I just too tired so I got flu, then I think it likes a curse because I have been so bad to somebody.  A few days ago this flu really disturbing, wakes me up at middle night, after that I couldn’t sleep again. For the result, in the morning I’m so sleepy, cannot concentrate on my works…..

Actually there is somebody that really disturbing my day. He ask me but don’t trust me. I try to explain to him, he say ok…. Then a few minute say that it’s not correct. How can he do that to me. Is am I so stupid or he is too clever?

This people makes me very angry. Every word he say, hurt my heart.  I think from the beginning, he don’t trust me, then why he still ask me? Just makes me tired to explain and explain again.

I cannot angry to him, he should be the one I respect. I try my best to be patient, but today I receive another sms that makes me a little angry. Really makes me sad, it seems that I really don’t have capability, seems that I’m so stupid. I already try my best to help him, but it is useless if he never trust me.

Do he know that hurting somebody is very easy but to be recovered is very difficult? I don’t want to hate him, but also need to control my emotion. Should I pretend to be a good person in front of him? He should know that it is really difficult to be a liar.

But this is my heart, even it has been hurted, I’m the one who feel it. No body will know, because there is a mask on my face that makes me smile =)

As long as I can make people happy, I will always smile for all of them…

Regards,

Flu Girl @ home   

HAPPY BIRTHDAY to NaUgHtY bOy!

Hope by adding a candle in your birthday cake, you will be a kind and good boy… Don’t always be kaijun "bodoh" again ok?

Happy belated birthday also to my colleague, my boss, and my friend - sunxiaoquan… Hope you will be more successfull and be the best boss to all of us =)

This naughty boy didn’t admit that today is his b’day… He only asking people when we have lunch together whether the other remember his birthday. Actually first we are thinking that today is his birthday but then we doubt it. We only remember his international date birthday but don’t know the chinese date. Overall it’s not our fault because we never know the chinese date =P

Finally he admit to wena that today is his birthday but tell her not to tell anybody. So, we prepare a small surprise to him. After office hour we are going to Taman Anggrek, order a birthday cake and treat him for dinner.

Actually I feel very full today. A lot of food, and also this afternoon I already drink a glass of frappucino at starbucks after the stupid "emergency fire" exercise. Could you imagine that we need to go down from 20th floor by stair?

We come to his apartment to make a little surprise by bring a birthday cake. Also invite some friend to celebrate it together. After sing a "happy birthday" song, blow the candle, and cut the cake, we start to "play". I forget who start it, but then we put the "cream" of the cake to each other face. Only kaijun’s face get all "creamy", hahaha…..

All run away try to escape from "cream" attack. Finally it makes a table glass in kaijun’s apartment be broken into some pieces. Yup, we need to work and clean up the floor from the pieces of glass and water then. Even when I try to escape and run into the lift, kaijun still have chance to put some cream at my face. What a naughty boy!

What a tired day, but it’s really a great birthday party celebration….

"May all your birthday wish will come true, birthday boy!"

Regards,

Si "cerdas" @ home